10th November 2018

You can’t ask that with Jay…

Hey everyone, hope your week is going well. Today we are starting a brand new type of post – I know so much change!! I’m redoing everything in my life right now and this is one of the things that is changing. I am trying out a bunch of new things to see what fits where. Let’s give this a shot and see if you like this idea. Basically the idea is I will ask a bunch of really personal questions to just people from all different walks of life and see what their answers are. Everything I write is how it has gone down; things are not edited to…

7th November 2018

How to become more positive in some really easy steps

The thing about being more positive is it’s easy for me to say but it’s not so easy to believe. Or so you would think… This post is all about how to live a happier and more positive lifestyle. I go into detail about each step, and give ideas on how to occupy your mind – maybe in moments of stress or anxiety. It is always good to have a list of things that work for you and help you to stay in control. Having a new mindset has totally changed my life and I want to help all of you to have a new mindset too. It starts with…

21st September 2018

What I’ve been up to!

So this is my first post in a long while, & I’m sitting thinking what do I write what do I write. So I’ve settled on updating you all on where I’m at. right now & what I’m up to in the near future/the start of next year.   Business is great, got some new people joining one which is joining today I need to message her actually. Okay done that now. One thing off my to-do list. So that is wonderful. I am really happy with how things are going need to message some new people but I’ll get there. Lisa (one of my best friends) is going to…

8th August 2018

A mother emotional abuse can make you hate that you love!

Most children went to bed & got a cuddle & kiss from their mumma bear & they felt safe because of that – Hell no is the boogy man getting in here tonight you would say. Mum’s are those people that you should be able to come to about anything & they make you feel safe, they never cry in front of you or put their stresses on you. Well this was not my experience with my mother. From lies to deceits to downright evilness. So lets start off with the last blog I wrote. That was all to do with my mothers choices & putting what I needed last…

9th July 2018

You define who you are, no-one else!

**This is my experiences not anyone else’s & I will NOT be going into details but if you are offended easily I recommend you don’t read this just in case… You have been warned** This is going to be one of hardest blogs I will of had to write so far. I am gonna do it though no matter how hard it is because in my eyes once again it is a different perspective than what you would be used to. As many of you know I was sexually abused as a child, I am not going to go through specific details as this could upset someone who is reading…