2nd December 2018

Emotions the window to the soul

Isn’t it amazing that we can feel? Some of you might think it’s weird that I have started this post with that question but let me explain what I mean. I have been going through a lot of change in the last few months, like A LOT of change and it’s only going to keep changing for now. Let’s start with the awakening. I don’t remember most of my old life and I don’t really want to. Not because I think I was a bad person or that I don’t feel old Pam deserves to be remembered but because there was so much hurt and heartache involved in my old…

14th November 2018

Laughing at life and winning it all!!

Life is what we make of it people say, this may be so but some people take it so seriously do you not think? I say this because certain types of people mull over every decision they make and every thought they have, Are they making the right move? Are they on the right life path? Are they raising their children properly? Are they in the correct job? You can spend all day asking questions as to whether you are or aren’t doing the right thing in life. When you do this you fail to see the little things in life. The laughter from a child… The colours in a…

12th November 2018

My life as I know it

Last week was CRAZY!!! I cannot believe how much I got done, its nuts. Yes it might not be a lot to a lot of other people, but for someone who a month ago wouldn’t have done this much it is a huge improvement and only going to get better.  My goals are getting accomplished and so much is happening I can’t even begin to describe how I am feeling other than to say thank you to everyone who has supported me thus far and I am feeling amazing!! Special shout out to Lisa Cooper and Tesni Winfield who are the best besties you could ask for. I am truly…

10th November 2018

You can’t ask that with Jay…

Hey everyone, hope your week is going well. Today we are starting a brand new type of post – I know so much change!! I’m redoing everything in my life right now and this is one of the things that is changing. I am trying out a bunch of new things to see what fits where. Let’s give this a shot and see if you like this idea. Basically the idea is I will ask a bunch of really personal questions to just people from all different walks of life and see what their answers are. Everything I write is how it has gone down; things are not edited to…

7th November 2018

How to become more positive in some really easy steps

The thing about being more positive is it’s easy for me to say but it’s not so easy to believe. Or so you would think… This post is all about how to live a happier and more positive lifestyle. I go into detail about each step, and give ideas on how to occupy your mind – maybe in moments of stress or anxiety. It is always good to have a list of things that work for you and help you to stay in control. Having a new mindset has totally changed my life and I want to help all of you to have a new mindset too. It starts with…